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Hello everyone, this is Melinda Russell with the Women's Motorsports Network podcast, and my guest today is Gray Ledbetter.
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And I was talking to Gray before we got on here and recorded and said Gray, I've been following you for a long time.
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I just can't believe I have never had you on the show or in the magazine, so I don't know what I was doing or how I let that fall through the cracks.
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But we're going to catch up today.
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So, gray, I want to welcome you to the show and would you first tell us a little bit about yourself, your family, your pets, anything you're willing to share?
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Yeah, of course, but first off, thank you for having me on here.
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I'm glad we were able to pull it off.
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I'm sitting at a racetrack right now actually.
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Of course you are.
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But I have two older sisters One is a PA and one is an esthetician, so we all took very different career paths, that's for sure.
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I have a dog that I love more than anything.
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I live in North Carolina.
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I don't want to move.
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I've traveled a lot of places and I don't think I ever want to move anywhere.
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I graduated from on track school, which is the online school that I think it's made its way big into the end of the motorsports world now.
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So, but I started school.
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I started with them in fifth grade and went all the way up through graduation.
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So they they were a big help, plus their graduations at a motocross race.
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So why not?
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Is it really?
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That's pretty cool.
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Yeah, so the AMA pro nationals is where they are, so they do their graduation, because it started from dirt bikes and it obviously is now ventured into everything else.
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But they have their graduation out of dirt bike track, but you're homeschooled and get a real graduation, so it's pretty cool that's very cool.
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That's that's fair.
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I've heard of that, that school before, so yeah, it has become very popular, I know that's for sure it has a ton.
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It was very grateful.
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It's why I've done it, for why I'm able to be racing where I am yeah, because you know really, when you think about it, um, back when you were in fifth grade which, however many years that was, it still online school wasn't a big thing no, um, it wasn't at all.
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We, uh, we went through I think I actually found them through somebody else, um, and then we just started with them.
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Going into my fifth grade year, I think, we did one other school for like a semester and I didn't like it um, but the on track stuff.
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It gets you the opportunity to travel with it, and every single teacher and every single person within the school understands racing and they understand sports in general, that if you're at an event and you can't be there or you can't do your school work, you just tell them and they're like, okay, like, just do it next week, it's not a big deal so now do they incorporate things that apply to motorsports in your schooling, or is it more just like regular school?
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no, it's regular school science, history, all the regular classes you take, a language you take.
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Basically they have a bunch of electives like drawing and photography and everything like that.
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It might be they might have added more.
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I graduated three years ago, so they might have added more since then.
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But yeah, pretty, pretty cool.
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And what a great way for kids to be able to do school and do what they love.
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Because that's you know a lot of, and a lot of times kids when they're in younger, don't even know what they want to do.
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But when you're passionate about motorsports, I find that kids at a very young age realize that that's what they want to do, and so it makes it so much easier for them to get through school.
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That's.
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That's great for sure.
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So you've been racing for quite a while.
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Tell me your racing story.
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How did you get started?
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Who influenced you to start?
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Tell me where you were at the beginning to where you are tonight.
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Well, I started racing when I was four years old, which that's the youngest you can race, uh, but I the how I got into it was so none of my family is a part of motorsports.
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They've never raced day in their life.
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I have no background or history background of racing whatsoever, um, in my family.
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And so we, we wanted or well, I wanted a plastic toy car you get at walmart that like two-year-olds have.
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And my parents said no, because they didn't want to listen to the plastic tiles, tires on our gravel driveway.
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So instead we had friends that race dirt bikes and they were like, hey, you can get her this little Four-wheeler.
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And it was it's pretty small, you can read it at two years old.
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So I turned two years old and we got a four wheeler and I started riding that around everywhere, like I would not stop bugging my parents to let me ride this thing at two years old.
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I wish I could remember it, but supposedly that's what they say, and so I fell in love with it.
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And then, since we had friends that raced dirt bikes, they were like, hey, get her a PW50 at three years old.
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So I started riding that and then, once I got off training wheels.
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I started riding more and liked it, and so they were like hey, put her to race.
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And so I went to race, and then I liked it, and so then I went and raced and I raced dirt bikes all the way up until I was around eight, nine, 10 years old-ish.
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We started going to a local indoor go-kart track when I was around nine, nine ish, and because it was raining all summer and I couldn't ride my dirt bike and so instead I went to race go-karts and I liked that.
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So then we started going to the outdoor go-kart track and I raced outdoor go-karts and I liked that.
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And then we went to Millbridge, which is the local track by Insalsbury, and I drove an Outlaw cart and so then I started racing those because I fell in love with that and you can kind of see the theme here.
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It's pretty much anything that I've gotten in.
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I've been able to race, which I'm very thankful for, thankful for my dad for that but I've just kind of fallen in love with everything that I've gotten into and eventually that led me to side-by-sides to race off road.
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Um, because we were in Austin, texas, at the 2015 X Games uh, summer X Games and I saw Rallycross for the first time and I was like, when they had it in X Games still, and I was like I want to do that.
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And I was nine years old, 10 years old, and I was like I want to do that.
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And I was nine years old, 10 years old, and I was like I want to do that.
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Well, they couldn't do it until you were 14 or 16 at the time.
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And so instead we got a um, we got a side-by-side, which is sequential shift, which was similar to the rally cars, and then we met Johnny and Kathy Greaves and I started racing with them.
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And now here I am.
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So what are you racing this weekend?
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So we're racing the pro light truck, um, which is what I've been racing all summer.
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Yeah.
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Yeah, and what series is that that you race in?
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Champ off road.
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What's it again?
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It's champ off road.
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Champ off road.
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Yeah, okay.
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The series all around the Midwest.
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Yeah.
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Well, we're going to California this year, so it's leaving the states.
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That's not the Midwest, for sure.
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No, we're leaving three states that we always race in and we're making our way to California in September, Wow.
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So you still live in North Carolina?
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Yep.
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And so what states have you raced in so far this year?
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This year we raced in so far this year.
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Uh, this year I've raced in.
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We raced in missouri, we raced in wisconsin and minnesota and then we'll race in michigan in two weeks um, and then we'll go to california in the end of september and where in michigan are you going to race?
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Bark river, which is upper Michigan, upper.
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Peninsula.
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Okay, because I live in Kalamazoo, but that's a long way away, that's far away.
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I almost went there for the when they do the Night of Destruction at the Speedway over 4th of July.
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Darn it.
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I know I was almost going to go and then I didn't.
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Maybe next year.
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Yeah, maybe next year.
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Yeah, maybe next year.
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We have to let me know because I live 15 minutes from the racetrack so that's a great racetrack, for sure.
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I've always wanted to make it, but I really I think I've only been to lower Michigan, like once okay, well, it's beautiful and when it's not storming like it is tonight, so it's normally sunny and and bright, and right now it's almost dark.
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So, yeah, it shouldn't be dark yet, but anyway for sure.
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So I'm going to go back.
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So at two years old you started racing and then you just kept moving up and up and up and up and your parents had to see that you were really serious about this, even though if my four-year-old had said I want to do this, I'd have probably been like, yeah, right, whatever.
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So they bought into it that you really were serious about that.
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You loved racing.
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Yeah, they supported me all the way through.
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I mean, I'm very grateful for it.
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I wouldn't be here without them.
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But when you're on dirt bikes at that young of an age, it's not a serious thing.
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And my dad up until probably four years ago was like this is not like a profession.
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This and not to me, but like to other people, because other people are like she's good, like she's going to want to keep doing this and like warning him that, like I'm gonna end up somewhere.
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And he was like no, it's fine, it's just for fun.
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It's just for fun.
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And now here we are yeah all the way up until I was probably 15 years old, 14 years old, um, he, that's what he was saying is like it's, it's fine, it's just for fun, like it's, we're just enjoying this.
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And now here we are.
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So that's kind of how dirt bikes were the whole time.
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And then I eventually started missing so much school that I had to become homeschooled.
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And so in fourth grade my dad was like if you do this, this and this, like most parents, it's like if you ride your bike every day, or if you do this or you take care of the dog or whatever, you can be homeschooled.
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And so I did that and I rode my bike what felt like every day at the time.
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And so I became homeschooled.
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And then it just I never went back and I never had the desire to go back and I was always traveling 24, seven after that point.
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So so who traveled with you?
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Well, up until I was 12 years old, my dad traveled with me, and then, at 12, I started flying by myself.
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So I would fly, fly.
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I would go out and train with Buddy Rice in Arizona and I would just.
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It's a direct flight from Charlotte, so I would do the unaccompanied minor thing walk to the airport with a parent, get on to the flight attendant, fly over there, have somebody meet you at the gate, yeah.
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So when I turned 14 and I was able to be by myself, it was like heaven it was like I'm an adult now at 14.
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yeah, it was so nice to be able to fly by myself, but, um, yeah, I've, I've really been traveling a lot by myself.
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I'm thankful enough to be able to do it with my boyfriend now.
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We travel and do everything together.
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Um, we went over to saudi arabia last year when I raced, uh, extreme e with travis pastrana that was.
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That was a cool experience that had to be very cool.
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He's, he's amazing.
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I've watched.
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I went to an event in Phoenix that he put on probably maybe four years or more ago.
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It was like the weekend after the NASCAR cup race and my two daughters live out there and so, um, I happened to be out there and and I went, because kyle bush was my was is my favorite driver, is one of my favorite drivers, and he was racing in that with travis and what a cool, what a cool thing to watch.
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You know, they were running, it was dirt and they were running, they were jumping over these things and it was just really, really fun to watch.
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So, and then he was supposed to be in kalamazoo yeah that's probably why you were thinking about coming, and then it got rain.
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Whatever he was coming for got rained out, so yeah yeah, they.
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I'm not sure what happened, but yeah, that's why I was gonna be there yeah, I figured as much for sure.
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So, um, you're racing a truck.
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Yes.
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That's.
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I love trucks, so I love, when I first started getting into racing and I started going to Kalamazoo Speedway, more seriously, there was a guy that ran a truck and he ran it with a bunch of cars, you know, and he was the only truck and he was my favorite driver because he was driving a truck.
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I just thought that was cool.
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And then, you know, I followed the truck series in NASCAR and I always really liked them because I thought they were much more like grassroots racing than anything else.
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And then Carson Hosovar lives is from my town and so you know I I really got interested when he was driving.
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But, um, what, what made you go the truck route?
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How did that happen?
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Well, we I was racing with Johnny and Kathy Greaves in 2021 and CJ was moved, or I guess CJ and Johnny Greaves either, or um, cj was going to be moving to Polaris the following year and cause he went from Yamaha to Polaris and I was racing either.
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Or CJ was going to be moving to Polaris the following year because he went from Yamaha to Polaris and I was racing a Yamaha and I was like, well, they were like you can't be under our tent just because of sponsorship obligations.
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They're like you can't be under our tent if you race a Yamaha and he's under Polaris.
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And I was like, okay, well, just so happened to be a few races later, ryan Beat comes up to me.
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He pulls me over to his tent.
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As I'm walking by his tent, he calls me over.
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I honestly didn't really know who he was at the time.
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I mean, I knew his name, but I don't think I'd ever spoken to him and I was 17 at the time well, 16 at the time and he called me over and he was like hey, there's this new prospect coming up.
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Chevy would like a driver under my tent.
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And I've been watching you come up through the ranks and I think you're doing really good.
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Would you have any interest in racing it for us next year?
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And I like thought about it and he happened to also live in north carolina.
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He had just moved from california and now he lives an hour away from me and I was, that's convenient.
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Um, yeah, so I, we got through the racing season after crandon and a few months go by and I kind of didn't forget about it, but like it was just kind of like a standstill, um, and I messaged him and I was like, hey, is the offer still stand?
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And so he was like, yeah, come by the shop here in the next few days or the next week, whenever you have time.
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And, uh, come check it out and see what you think.
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Went down to the shop.
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And then next thing, you know, I was getting fitted for this pro spec truck and was looking to race it the following year in 22.
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And it was a blast.
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I absolutely loved racing the truck.
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We were able to win the championship our first year and then the second year I finished third, but going into last year I think we were all three tied for points, pretty much Wow.
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So it was a good year.
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I absolutely loved racing the pro spec truck and we took a year off last year to go race Can-Ams and move back into the side-by-sides my boyfriend and I.
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We were able to do it all by ourselves.
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He's a moto guy, he didn't know anything about side-by-sides and took on the adventure with me.
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It was literally just us two showing up at the racetrack and that was it.
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So that was an eventful experience.
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I'd never done or ran a race team I mean, there's only the two of us but I'd never ran a race team by myself.
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So that was a learning curve.
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It was really fun and I'm grateful that I've gotten to do it.
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But then the opportunity came back up and Ryan was like hey, If you're willing to buy it, we can put you under our tent and you can race with us again.
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And so here we are.
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Wow, you and your boyfriend.
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So there's a lot more to a race team than what you think.
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Yeah, I mean I always knew I'm grateful to have been around the Grades and around Ryan, like I always knew how it worked.
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It was just doing it ourselves with just the two of us.
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I mean we didn't have a hot pit.
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We just we had friends that helped us out.
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We had friends that helped us out, made us food every night, the racetrack we would just mingle off of them, which I'm so grateful for them, and everybody that helped us out last year.
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But yeah, no, there's, there's a lot that goes into it.
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Yeah, there there really is.
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But what great experience for you to have, because, moving forward, you know, as you race more, you're going to probably own your own team here at one of these days and you'll you'll have that experience behind you for sure.
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For sure it was.
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It was something I'm very grateful to have gone to experience, and especially only at we were 19 and 22 at the time.
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Wow.
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So it's for just the two of us.
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It was interesting.
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You know.
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I find, though, that and you know it's never a hundred percent, but I do find that girls since I've interviewed more girls I don't know about the boys, but girls mature faster.
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That are in motor sports.
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They're much, much more mature for their age, I should say the ones that have grown up racing, being involved, and I think a lot of it come comes because they've gained confidence, they've had to learn how to speak.
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They are around a lot of adults, you know.
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I mean, when you think about it, a team is mostly adults helping a kid, and so um.
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I find that you know you're mature beyond your years a lot of times if you've been involved in motorsports oh, I agree 100.
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I think I'm around kids my own age back at home or just in general in public and I'm like I look, I'm not against them.
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It's just how you grow up and I definitely think there's a big change around it.
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And especially which I didn't go to school high school either so I wasn't around the drama, I wasn't around all of that type of stuff that you get in high school no-transcript.
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Junior high, all that.
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Yeah, there's a lot of things that I'm glad you didn't have to experience, but there's also a lot of things you missed.
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Did you ever regret?
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I mean, you know, like everybody's going to prom or or football games or different things, did you still attend or or have friends as part of that?
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Or really, you were just, you're just like nope, I'm doing this and and those were all a different life.
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Yeah, it was, I think.
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When I was younger it was really hard when I just had transitioned into uh, I think it would have been easier if I would have transitioned, going into middle school, rather than missing the last year of elementary school and having all my friends and watching them go through it.
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I miss it a lot.
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Uh, I don't think middle school I really was.
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It really was an issue.
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Going into high school, I um, there was definitely times that I missed, like the, the, uh, what is it?
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The theme week?
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I can't even think spirit week stuff like just like the silly little things that you get in high school going to parties, going to this, doing that like there was definitely times I miss it.
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But then I just try to look at life that I have now and what I'm doing and I'm like, yeah, but I'm also already here and I've gotten to travel the world and I've done all these things, so it's a love-hate relationship.
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There's definitely times that even still now, like with college cause I don't go to college Um, there's times where I'm like, yeah, I kind of wish I'd get to experience it, but then again, like I get to be a racetrack almost every weekend.
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Yeah, and, and you know, there there's a thing called the College of Life and that's kind of what you're learning, right, yeah, and nothing against college.
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I encourage people to get as much education as they can.
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But I also know just from my granddaughter being in college and she brought her accounting over one time and I was like you're never going to use this.
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Yeah, if you actually get into an accounting job at a company, you're never going to use this, and so her mom probably didn't think that was a good thing to say, but it was the truth.
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But you know, there's things that they have to teach you and whatever, and so you're learning things like how to run a race team by actually doing it.
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Exactly.